Interesting you never did celebrate your anniversary. Same here:
1st year married : had a newborn at home, pretty tired, didn't celebrate our annivrs 2nd year : the exact same date I gave birth to our D (I thought It was the nicest present for both of us) 3rd year : His mom dies next day of our annivrs 4th year : his mom death was more important than our anivers, he was very very depressed 5th year : same, I was a bit mad that death was winning over life, our life 6th year : had a small heart shaped cake and bday cake for D 7th year : already separated
I hated it everytime I was thinking we never got to celebrate our day. He never seemed to mind or care. Next year we are having a BIG party...