For the past couple of days I've been thinking about my rings, even posted on another thread that I took mine off at the beginning of Jan when my husband said he had to move out. I told him they just made me too sad and I asked for his back, telling him he could wear it when he deserved it. A few weeks ago, I gave him back his ring to wear/not wear as he decided and mine are in my jewelry box.

I think I've decided to put my wedding band back on. It's appropriate because I am still married, want to stay married and it's a little bit of "acting as if."


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.