I know that you mentioned in the past that you felt that she was suffering from depression. I've always thought that was true, but your post tonight really confirms it. I really wish there was some way you could convince her to go and talk to a doctor about this. There are tests on the internet that ask questions that score a person on the possiblility of depression. Maybe you could look at one and then think about maybe getting her to answer the questions.
Again I'm so sorry, I know this conversation didn't turn out exactly how you wanted it to, but I do think she will need to seek medical help before she can fix herself or her marriage.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
