Finding my way out of the dark

[mishka422]

Thanks Punkt! I'm working super hard at it. This is by far the toughest thing I've ever done in my whole life! I am fighting so hard for our M but trying to heal myself at the same time.

Not sure what to do about this weekend. H was supposed to have S13 on Friday night for 4 hours and I was going out with friends but now he is working a side job Friday night and wants to take S13 Saturday afternoon which means even if I reschedule with my friends to Saturday night it still won't work because S13 will be home. I don't see H keeping him more than 3-4 hours max. I'm not really sure how I should handle this without making it seem like I'm trying to control H. He has the schedule but picked up extra work on the night he knew he was supposed to have our son. However, I was counting on that schedule and made plans according to it.

What would be the most non-threatening, non-controlling way to handle this?