SO happy to hear about you dancing with your daughter and H in the kitchen!! So many positive steps from your H!! It's great that he's talking about the future that way! Sounds like your true joy is overflowing from your heart, which coincidentally happens to be super attractive!
The specific chapter in "living in the light" is called "your perfect body" or something like that.
Let me know what you think of "for women only", I haven't read that one yet!!