Out of the house for about 2 1/2 months. We talk a little better, civil, I just started to read the DBing book. Need help figuering out the 180 move. Spouse still pushing for the big D. What should I do? should I stall for the D or move foward? I say that I love her and all she says is "I know" I asked her if she still loved me, she said that I coused to much pain, broke her heart and doesnt want to feel pain no more. Is there still hope?