here comes the sun.,...It will be alright

[Michael Mc C]

Shoot, one more thing. If you haven't been speaking to her the way you did when she was "the woman you married", maybe you want to practice doing that before having the discussion. I don't necessarily mean flirting and playing, speak to her as if you are NOT afraid to hear what her reaction might be.

You may already do this. For the longest time I was treating my wife with kid gloves, not being completely open about my perspective because I didn't want to push. One of the most freeing things for my W and I has been our ability to begin speaking to each other with love (she may disagree) and understanding. It all happened because I taught myself how to do it again and since Christmas I have been leading by example (almost as if I had to train her again as well).


Just some thoughts. Again, at this point I think you know best how to proceed.