Hey Short, sorry you are having a hard time. You have to really wonder about these guys. My h is someone who did not want to be married anymore and wanted a divorce right away so he could start a new like. It is 8 months later and I have asked him to leave and he is still dragging his feet. What gives with these men?
Dont let him grind you down, Short. You fight for yourself and your son - for whatever you feel that you both deserve.
It is sad how we find out who our real friends are. I am taking a line from my h. Life is too short. And I refuse to surround myself with anyone who is negative, unsupporting, or judgemental. My circle is dwindling, but thats ok because the people that are still in it are the best. Hang in there, dont let the bugger get you down.