Can't wait to see what my XW gets me for my birthday! I picked up the kids at her place tonight and while there I wrote on her shopping list "a fantastic birthday gift for Whatis!" I just can't help myself sometimes On an even brighter note, it looks like I won't have to make a decision about the cottage. W and our friends have decided they aren't going this year, of course, the kids get to tell me this. One less stress in my life, I guess! That's my update.