My WAW wants a permanent no contact restraining order in place to replace the one that she wanted in place after I filed for divorce (hoping to convince her to talk). She is acting as if I were some monster when in reality she was the one that assaulted me and I suspect infidelity among other issues. The problem is that living in the same city, it just brings up too many possibilities of running into her. I am a good person. I loved her with all my heart. I'm hurt by her actions and don't feel they are justified.