That was nice that the 2 of you could do lunch alone together. I can't get my H to do that, I think he is worried it will be like a yucky date...ewwwwww...lol.
Yeah, you probably could have gone all year without the R talk during lunch, pressure from you. However it doesn't seem like she was put off by it. You didn't mention her mood changing for the worse after you mentioned those things. However just leave it alone now. You gave her food for thought so let her think.
Lots of luck and keep us posted.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07