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I can try to figure out the best way to get her back.


Yup, you can try to figure that out, or maybe listen to some of the posters here. And tricks are not the way.

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I have one goal...to save my family


You fix yourself to fix your marriage. The only person saying 'save' round your parts is...you.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet