Originally Posted By: NikB
H - just a quick question for you, are you 100% clear on what it is that you want?




Do you want to know what's going on in her mind to get an idea of where she stands on the M?




Yes

Originally Posted By: NikB

Do you want her cooperation in repairing your M?



Yes

Originally Posted By: NikB

Do you want the limbo to be over with ASAP? (even if that means moving towards sep/D)



NO

I know these are inportant questions. But I am confused already.

I guess the most inportant one is :Do you want to know what's going on in her mind to get an idea of where she stands on the M?

This will answer the rest.

Dr Love


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know