We live in the day and age where the actions you want to pursue will hurt you, legally and financially.
You cannot afford it.
OF COURSE YOU FEEL EMASCULATED. Deal with it, honestly are you any less of a man because of this guy?
Tell you what, if this guy kidnapped you wife and held her hostage, then yes, you'd be a whimp. If she was saying rescue me, or save me, I'd tell you to man up and kick his a $$.
Thats not what is happening. The days of the strongest and most pyhsically capable man being the alpha are over. She isn't going to appreciate or fawn all over you if you beat him down, more than likely her name is going to appear on a police report filed against you.
Weather the storm, as long as you can.
Are you better than this POS? Sadly you prove that by ignore them.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK