Act as if you don't care if H is there or not...be busy with something else....television, reading, baking cookies, laundry...whatever to keep you occupied while he's around. Maybe he'll come looking for you to chat?
Good Luck!
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally