H48 W42 S14 S12 Married 16 Together 18 D bomb 01/07/08 PA discovered 02/04/08
Hi I previously posted in Newcomers. W is clearly going through MLC. W's OM is in a different country. They are carrying on an EA (was a PA) through the telephone and email.
She has told me she has asked him not to contact her for a month he obviously says he cannot do that. They are both clearly addicted to the A.
I believe she cannot move forward until the A is over, I believe she knows long term she could not trust the OM who is 11 years younger, already showing jealousy and control, and from a completely different culture.
The advice I have read in Surviving An Affair etc is that my W must go cold turkey, she is quite clearly not willing or able to do this.
Is it likely the EA will end on its own or will she carry on like this for years? What can I do?
