W is pretty much planning her Friday night with friends and next week (spring break). I guess that is the difference between her and me. She is getting a life and I am stuck in neutral. I am just waiting for the apt. to be vacated to make a move. I will probably be back at the house for a week when W makes her 4th trip to Mexico in one yr. I checked her passport and she was not in Europe but in Mexico in January. At this point it does not really matter but I did make a crack about her going to see her latin lover which she did not like. I need to move on....not give up but change strategy. I don't think I am ready to give up yet but a change of scenery will do me good. Maybe a little darkness will also help the w realize what is going on. We will see what happens and I will keep you posted.