Have you thought about going to Retrouvaille? I hear it's very good at teaching couple's to communicate better - which is useful even if you don't stay together.

Just an idea. There are some people on these boards who have had a very positive experience there and I haven't seen one BAD report, even if the M didn't ultimately succeed.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength