Sorry about your pup. I am sure you don't want to see him suffer, so maybe it will be best to put him at peace. ((((hugs))))

Now about your H, that was really disrespectful. I don't know what advice to you give you, but Drew is right, wait on it.

Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009