(((((Pinkribbon))))) You are more than welcome to join the party! Hey, there isn't any reason it can't be a moving party. Though I don't know what your H would think when 15 ladies and one guy showed up? Hmmm.... Maybe that would REALLY shock him?
(((((beginnersmind))))) I think I have it. I'll just tell her I am having some friends over. Then, when she says who, I'll just say... beginnersmind, Michelle, Pinkribbon, Jeanette, BA, Lisa, Ali, new_attitude, E, Transformer, Beth 83, Treese, Nicole, Gypsy, WCW, F1, palgal, Ingrid, ms ladybug, Essie, dar, and whoever I forgot (sorry!). I guess I should invite W2S, Jack, and Dom, too, just for completeness! So, it's only 21 or so ladies. I don't see how that could be a problem. As long as we promise to clean up when we are done!
Bring the food! We shall eat and drink, and watch the sunsets, which are almost always great here!
