She's in a BAD mood today...having a bad day at work. I talked to her this morning and she wasn't too talkative. Of course my insecure mind thinks it's all about me
But she is the type that places a lot of her identity in her career - which is fine, it gives her a lot to strive for - but when things are going well at work, life is good. When things are not going well at work, she can tend to project that onto her life.
I can't see her tonight due to my yoga class. I can't see her Wednesday, our daughter is coming over to visit me. I invited her out for a glass of wine Thursday, but she declined, she is going to the Art Gallery with her girlfriend. Maybe Friday we'll catch up!
I'm thinking about not suggesting anything for this coming weekend, to give her some space and freedom. Why? Well, next wknd is her birthday, I'm taking her out to dinner and we're staying overnight in a nice hotel. The following wknd is when she is thinking of moving back home. So this is really her last alone weekend in 'her' place.
My feeling is that she may panic a bit and push the move back a week to Easter.
On a more positive note, we had a nice phone call last night, we discussed selling our place and buying a new one. She seems quite enthused about it. I'm all over it as well.
But - we shall see. I'm keeping my PMA as best I can, but it is up and down!
Why is it that we can't hang onto positive thoughts as easily as negative ones?
