W not angry any more and wants to work on the M

[trytoohard]

Hi Lanzo, been following your sitch but this will be my first post to you. Let me recommend that while you cool your jets and follow your wife's lead on the physical stuff, get and read the book Good Husband, Great Marriage by Robert Mark Alter. Of the over 35 books that I have read in the past 3 years, this by far hits the nail on the head regarding specific instructions on how to be a great husband.

I just finished it and gave it to my H this past weekend because he kept asking me things like "how to you heal an old wound" and "what do you mean I don't cherish you?" This explains exactly what you need to do as a husband.

Keep up the good work!