I agree, the worst part of all this is what it does to the children. It is horrible.

You use the term fu-----ing buddies. I thought this at first until my ex said that "it has nothing to do with sex, but everything to do with wanting to feel needed." Whatever the reason, it is wrong, not to mention immoral. To repeat the saying a million times, "OW/OP is a bandaid".

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11