Peace, My H is 28 yrs old and in April he will turn 29 yrs old. He and I have been together for 13 years and married for 7 & 1/2 yrs.
Now that we are reconciling, he has come right out and agreed with me and what I have been saying all along about him being in a MLC. He fully admits it and agrees to it. He says he has read about it also, and that he feels that everyone will go through a MLC at one point or another in their lives. I validated his opinion and said, however; that it is what you do and how you do it while in the MLC that counts the most. He didn't have much of a comment to my sly remark.
He is giving me a lot of hope allready, by talking about our future and having kids someday, and buying a home together again.
We talked about taking things slow and him staying at his apt. during the weekdays. However, he has had the flu and his heat in his apt. was broken and set at 59 degrees so he asked me both sunday & monday night if he could stay and sleep on the couch because he says he is much more comfortable in my place. I said yes, so he has been with me for the past 5 days-wow!
I still get really fearfull when I come home from work that he wont be there, or that he wont come when he calls me on the phone after hes done working. I guess it is all part of the game. TIPPER
