Wow! Thanks to get insight on the other side of the spectrum. Boy thats an eye opener, they say the A can last for awhile 1 1/2 to 2 years before they fizzle out but don't think I can wait around to see what happens next, I am not much for cliff hanger situations. I don't understand what makes you think you never loved your wife, you had to love her somewhere in the past being a supportive wife and mother, she had to be loving to you too don't you think? I'm sure AP is new and fresh I get that, maybe younger too, but what makes you think this is not thinking with wrong head? Sorry just this side of the spectrum speaking, don't mean to be harsh and diffintely don't want to lose your insight, just thinking out loud. I want to understand what makes men believe how they can up and leave when people left behind love them so much. Sorry, I hope I am not offending you.
Sincerely hopefully, gsr1
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Married 19 years Together 24 years ILYBNILWY 1/7/08 OW 10/11/07 ended affair 3/14/08 came home 3/14/08 last contacted ow 3/17/08 4/19/08 trying to piece marriage back.
