Stop trying to explain why you were the "bad wife" when you were depressed.
Stop trying to convince him to go to C with you.
This is chasing behavior...it only pushes him away further.
People want what they can't have. So...start taking care of yourself some more. I'm excited about the play. Now start going to a gym or something. The happier you are without him, and the more you show him what a great person you are, the more he'll be likely to notice.
Wait it out till he moves, then the stress will drop Then you can practice the Last Resort Technique in earnest.
