Out of the Blue?

[kturnernc]

Thanks for the wise words guys. I have sworn off the spying. But am still worried that she has no desire what so ever to get back. And I guess right now she doesn't. Oh but she will!!! I am DBing and doing what I think is right and am going to continue to GAL... one of the little things that I have started doing is simply talking to the people I encounter through out the day. It has made me smile on more than one example.

Anyway, the latest is that she changed over some of our insurance policies without informing me of this change. So I kind of found out. But she stated that this was just something else that she had to put into her account for autodraft and another step to separating completely. And that it was not her being sneaky. We agreed to give each other advance notice so as not to seem sneaky or underhanded. She still seems like she is going full steam ahead on the separation agreement. She mentioned the paperwork again. I know that there is a difference between separation and divorce papers. Nothing is final either way. I am trying to stay positive in everything.

I guess this is the 'up' portion of the roller coaster.