I knew it would be a bit difficult to understand me with the language and all but if you think I was less understandable than Forrest (BTW, Forrest I LOVE your posts. I meant to ask you a couple of times for some clarification but I was afraid you would get insulted), then I really need to explain myself.
All I am talking about, is try to find some little things that will bring some breaths of fresh air into your R. While you are dealing with the slow progress, you know what to expect and what not to pursue (watch that "border" line my friend, you don't want to get banned (sp?) for good), you are doing all the waiting and "manipulating" and hard working, try to add a little flavor(!). Anything that would make her laugh, be pleasantly surprised, daydreaming, ANYTHING... would do. Things that YOU (LAN) would love to do (other than christening for the time being) and you would be fun to be around with while doing them.
Am I making any sense here? Other than this I kind of agree with Forrest (to the extend that I understand what he is saying...).
