I am so confused, not sure what hand I am playing

[Snow White]

2 things happened today i would like to think of as positive.

First I got a call from another office in my building asking if I could come by someones desk. Thinking they needed my help I went over, there was 3 women in the office and they just wanted to see me because they had heard how great I looked and wanted to check me out. Now today i actually took this as a compliment, up until now I have been getting hurt everytime because my immediate thought was yeah I look good so my husband cheated on me with someone twice my weight. Today I just said thanks and discussed with them the program I was on that they were interested in.

Second, I have been taking to a friend at work that is an EAP referral agent, I have been going over the sitch with her and she is not allowed input but just listens. I asked her today if she could set something up with our internal counsellor to discuss me (as opposed to just the M) and what i can be doing to make myself whole again.