I'm so sorry that your weekend was so insane and the kids all had to witness this.
Lookily, my H seems to care what the boys think of him now so I don't think he'd do that in their presence just on the phone with me.
H called me yesterday to discuss S19 who had gotten in trouble again with the law. Then he started in on have I seen a lawyer that he was waiting for me to do this. I lied and said no. I'm trying to drag this out but I remembered that I'd paid her with a check and it cleared yesterday. I'm sure H saw this.
We got onto the subject of the credit cards and I told H again that I didn't think it was fair of him to expect me to pay for OW's dinners, gifts, building supplies, company expenses he gets reimbursed 100% out of our money and that he should pay off those expenses with his 1/2 that he will get. I told him he would surely not stand for it if it was the other way around. H told me that he was not going to have me telling him how to spend his money! WHAT!!
I also told H that I'd like him to maintain health insurance for both boys until 6 months after they graduated from college. H said he'd never agree to this or anything else that I asked of him and that HE was going to take care of HIS sons. I reminded him that they were OUR sons. H is only legally required to maintain health insurance on S15 until he graduates from high school and he doesn't have to have insurance on S19 at all.
H also said he wanted me to email to him a list of things that I want. He said he'd already started his list and wasn't finished with it. So, I told him since he'd already started a list to please email it to me when he's finished and I'd start on mine. He said NO. I was to email my list first. WTF? He has no clue who he is messing with. I CAN play hardball and I'd love to do it with the 2 that he has!
Tomorrow is our 20th anniversary. I can't wait to see what I'm in store for.
