Welcome Addie,you are deffinetly in the right place.Reading the book will HELP,For yourself and your sitch.About the snooping its only going to make things worse for you emotionally.You dont need that right now.Its time to dettach.You have to screw your head on.Move forward for yourself.Good luck Tom


Me:42 W:41 Married 22 seperated12-31-07,served papers 2-29-08 S21-S20 partialy disabled S17
Divorce sighed 10-7-08 final 90 days after