Treese, My H left last march and came back for a 5 month stretch from July through Mid-Dec. THen H left again and moved into his 2nd own apt. for the last 2 & 1/2 months, now he has returned to me for another try.
We do not have kids, but we do have 2 cats and a dog. He loves the dog, and would come over almost once a week when I was at work to walk the dog. This is how I think the mystery began, as I would fill my calender with all sorts of activities, and the house was filled with my new hobbies materials (such as crushed plates from Mosaics I was makeing), and I even hung my dress from the black tie affair I went to with a freind across my doorway ridge to my bedroom. I also took down all the pictures of my H and I together.
Just because it seems like they have no interest in you at all, doesn't always mean that that is the case. I have since found out that my H was asking ?'s to many of my friends about my well being and whereabouts on a few recent occasions. I seriously thought he had no care in the world for me, as he wouldn't call much and we only saw each other twice in the 2 1/2 months that he was gone. ALso the times he talked to me he was always saying things about a divorce. It just shows that you can not understand a confused person. Hope this helps: TIPPER