BT, if you go back to one of my old threads from a few months ago you'll see that I sounded just like you do now...way too wrapped up in what W is doing. So don't be too hard on yourself...it takes time to learn to detach. Before long, you'll be secretly laughing at her craziness while projecting a calm, cool, friendly demeanor.
MLCers repeat things over, and over, and over, and over, and...you get my point. I can't count the number of times I've heard:
"I just don't know what's going to happen to us." (One of her favorites for instilling doubt and fear)
"Maybe we can just be friends." (In other words, sex is out of the question)
"Now it's time for me." (There are several variations of this overall selfish theme)
The MLCer will keep repeating this bile more to convince themselves than to convince you. I just nod my head, smile, and say something empathetic.
You're doing a fine job BT. Started those flying lessons yet?
Bomb
Me: 51 W: 50 M 24 yrs EA: since Apr 06 S22, S26, S28 ILYBNILWY:Nov 07
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden
