Yeah, I know what you mean teenagers. Well anyway let me know how that goes in regards with telling the kids. I have a feeling that once it is out there they're going to need C.

I get what you say about H not wanting to look them in the face to see their pain I think my H will do the same thing and I know once he's out of the house which will probably be soon if I do what people are suggesting, he will not be too eager to come home and make time for kids he'll be too busy with, as you put it, his F*** buddy, it seems only fitting than giving her such a proper name as OW, doesn't it.

As far as patience goes, God give it too me in big doses pleaseeeeeeeee, because my prescription is running out.

Hugs,

gsr1

M 45
H 42

D 26
D 18
S 16

Married 19 years
Together 24 years
ILYBNILWY 1/7/08
OW 10/11/07
ended affair 3/14/08
came home 3/14/08
last contacted ow 3/17/08
4/19/08 trying to piece marriage back.