Husband's Mid-Life Crisis

[kturnernc]

nlt, glad you are here. This place will help get things on the right track. Read the books. I have read them a few tiems so far and the advice is wonderful.

Addie is right. Stop snooping!! I am struggling with this now myself. I have access to both my WAW's email and cell records, but it is through sheer will that I am not doing anything about it. It is very important not to snoop. What good will it do you? If you don't find anything, you will keep doing it and you will not feel any better. If you DO find something, you will feel worse and then possibly confrontational. Neither of which will do you any good. Trust me, it is a lose/lose situation. AVOID IT!!!

Try and stay positive and make baby steps to improve. Do not pursue him. His silence is probably because he is having feelings of guilt about this whole situation. Take your time. Do it right. Do it for YOU!!