Yes, patience is a recurring theme these days, isn't it?
I agree, I want my H to be "all in" but at this point I have decided to settle for "not all OUT" b/c I am just not ready to give up. Saturday I thought I was. But now I know I am not. So give yourself time, too. You may want to quit today but change your mind tomorrow....Ultimately, though, I agree. Our spouses have to get to an "All In" mentality for this to work. It is up to us to decide how long we are willing to wait. Guess I have decided to wait a little longer... Hope you are having a good day!