Just sit tight and continue to listen and don't push. Simply enjoy the date with your girlfriend.
OK, so GAL works when you didn't have one, but what would you recommend to those of us who did plenty before, it was just that we did all our stuff apart? (Easier with the babysitter thing at first, then he just avoided me.)
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09