Cat,
You're done. Good for you for making that decision. You did fight the fight. Big time. And now you are at a point where you are ready to be done with this mess.

As difficult as this is, I guarantee you... you will gain a tremendous amount of peace from this decision. Yes, there will be sad moments. And that's okay. But at least you won't be worrying all the time.

You are a wonderful woman. You are a wonderful mother. You are a wonderful wife. And one day (when you are ready), you will find yourself in a healthy and loving R.

Your H is messed up. And it's not up to you to fix him. You are walking away with your head held high.

I am here for you. You will be good. I promise you.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track