I was definitely in Stage 1 before and think I'm heading into Stage 2. I totally agree about re-hashing the past. Counseling just really pushed us into our own corners: me saying that marriage is worth working on, him saying he was so unhappy he didn't know.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
