I went to my MIL house for a visit last night. I had a few drinks with her. When I got home W was working with son on his home work. It was getting late so I said good night and when to lie down. W came into the bedroom and I asked her if we could talk tomorrow. After a long pause she said we can talk but all she can think about is her not having a job and how money is going to be tight. We can talk after she gets back from the dentist. (I am paraphrasing this). She said it in an annoyed, angry voice.
I don't think I want to talkanymore. I think I want to tell her
"She is free to go. After Son is out of school hopefully she will have a job by then and we can go our separate ways. What I need to do now is try to figure out a way to let everybody know what happened and why I took so long to do the right thing. I don't want our family's to be hit blind sided by this"
I will then leave the room
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know