Thank you for the advice. Wow...16 months then I do have a LONG way to go. I am very guilty of wanting things to move along faster. I just want this Hell to be over with, but I am starting to realize that it is going to be a long road.

Thanks again!

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08