I just gotta let this stuff sink in and get real good at it. I am in inning #1 and have a long ride to go. I thought I was doing great! Two steps forward and one back. BTW: I always tell her she looks great (she gets kinda mad when I do because it dose not justify what she is doing) and i did not suggest that I go out to get a GF. That conversation grew out of her OP and how it felt to me and then I asked her how it would feel to her if I had done something like that. It's a battle man but i am going to make it.
