Hey all, Thank you so much for the excitment with my situation.
I do feel really scared about all this, but I also feel like he has definetly come out of the tunnel more than he had the last time. I just don't know if there is still a chance of him slipping back into it or not. He still has an addiction to alcohol and going to the bars (especially now that he has made a lot of new friends there).
I am going to try and read up on reconnection/reconciliation as much as I can. I will probably move over to piecing soon but I will likely stay in touch here too.
The mystery was created by not making any contacts with him unless if he contacted me 1st. Also waiting hours or days to answer the phone/text messages. And mostly from getting a life of my own that he had no idea where & what I was doing and/or who it was with. I even went out on one "Friendly Date" that he eventually found out about from a mutual friend of ours.Two weeks later he came back to me. TIPPER