Yo BT,
I'm not going to repeat what Bomb and the gang have already said but brotha you gotta start acting as if you don't give a fat rats ass what she does. Yup easier said than done, believe me I KNOW \:\) GLA and read and reread that DB book bro!!!
I know you want some lovin from the lady right now but don't pressure her and don't ask if you should get a GF.
One way train the splits ville Bro. If you gotta go beat the Bishop then so be it. Don't be needy and don't tell her she looks like crap too.
If you want her back you and only you can change her by actions ONLY.She is doing her best to "make right in her mind" what she is doing to you. Its a deep dark hole bro..don't fall into it.
Instead you gotta act like the happy fool and act like nothing is wrong. Be happier around her be nice around her take care of you and the kids around her GAL and such. Be the strong intelligent one who has his head screwed on straight.
Somehow you need to act like the guy she fell in love with too.
The trick is to not falter around her....when she isn't there THEN you can fall apart, kick cry scream hoot and holler.
just get it together when shes around.
Trust me...it works.

Last edited by Gman3388; 02/26/08 01:53 PM.

Gman
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kids
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Been here off and on since 06.
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