I am so confused, not sure what hand I am playing

[Snow White]

Ok while I did not verbalize my boundaries last night (maybe 1 night without r talk is ok) I did go over them a lot in my head. I did not respond to the 2 texts my h sent yesterday or call back when he called my cell because the home phone was busy. The 2nd text and the phone call was missed because the phone was in my purse not on my lap but it is still progress I think. I spent most of the time after I got home cuddling with my daughter on the couch(she is very needy and knows something is up) instead of on the computer, looking at phone bills, counting texts ect. When he got home he told me that apparantly everyone at work is cheating the company (he had seen stuff from other people before) because he got an fax today that said look at the work email then delete it right away and it was info about another ee. I said who sent you the fax, of course it was ow. He really thinks that it is ok that they remain friends at work. I said what part of you not talking to her anymore does this include? Don't you think it is odd he needs to tell me about the convos they have?

I was feeling sick, I am finally getting what everyone in my entire family and extended family has had. I and the rest of the family went to sleep at 7:30, I wore flannels instead of the prettier cotton pjs I've been wearing, I know the intial advice was be the greener grass but i think i've been inviting too much attention.

I noticed something last night, H brought his cell phone in the house and left it at the front door, he did this sunday morning too when he went for coffee he left it behind. This is odd for him as it was stuck to his side before. Not sure if this is a good sign or if it means there is another phone(it really is too bad i need to think this way)

I listened to the radio on the way to work today.