I've just read my last post back I didn't realise it that was funny.
Anyway back to my sitch I think I'm starting to get what you and Kalni are now saying, "Stop pushing W for answers cos she probably doesn't know any". If I'm honest I think W and I got to this point 2 years ago but I kept pushing for verbal reassurances and didn't get it, then I was pushing for physical reassurance and definitely didn't get it (re honey pot). So I withdrew from her and she went seeking attention else where, and the rest is history.
OK I'll make a dangerous assumption now but I have to do it to help piece the story together. I think W is showing her commitment in her own way with her actions. She is putting a big focus on quality time, the family, the 3 of us cos she doesn't know how to deal with us, the two of us, me and her and the A and all that went with it. I have to accept that for now, I just hope that I continue to deal with it.
So W and I are out of sync I can see it now, if that's the case I think I am going to have be the one to synchronise with her. Is that how it works ?
