Loving a WAS isn't easy

[mymonkeybug]

All you will do with snooping is find information that is useless to you. If your purpose right now is to save your marriage then the information you find from snooping won't be any good because you won't be able to question H about it or he will run and insist you are no good and controlling etc.... So really by finding this info. out from snooping you will only drive yourslf crazy thinking about it all day and wondering what it all means and also run the risk of some of it slipping out to him. STOP!!!! I know tough thing to do but we have to learn to not do it.