I agree, our marriages tend to be flawed, but there are good times and the great kids that came from it *8) Mastering the detachment protects us from the WAS's proclamations of how it was always bad, that there were no good times...
Sure, I wish W could find a way to be happy, without having to tear things down around her on the way out. Why do they feel the need to lash out and hurt us when all they want to do is leave?
Me: 35 W: 34 S8 & S5 M: 11 IDLY: 08/2007
"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" - Janis Joplin, Me and Bobby McGee
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about dancing in the rain!"
