I haven't read this thread before as I have been following another but it is good to get some inspiration about backing off from the WAS who is with OW - I have been a very active snooper and pursuer and I know so much I have to back off but I have had a lot of trouble with my strength and willpower to do so.
Me: 39, H: 37 Married 12 yrs EA 01/07, bomb 07/07. He moved out 09/07. Lived alone for some time, moved in with OW in 2009, moved out again Mar 2010 S:8 D:11
