LOL, My soon to be XW hardly ever returns my calls. I got a call from a bank concerning an account that was supposed to have been closed. Only to find out that not only am I still on the account but she is not handling the finances correctly. I was livid but there is nothing I can do about an account where she is the primary account holder. When she does call its generally confrontational. I don't know what to say other than to grin and bare it. Sure does wear on you. I am amused though from time to time when she asks what I am doing with the person I am dating. I never answer that question, would love to say none ya but that just adds to the irritation so I avoid it and her. I did get chewed on last week because my girls were at her house and trying to call the lady I am dating, long distance, grin. My girls really like her which does not make the XW all that happy but no matter how she has tried to intervene the girls love for this lady has remained. Apparently she will never affect that, other than to be an irritant. I love my girls but sure wish that connection to the XW wasn't there.